The Skies are... Pink! | Collaborative Travel Interviews

Passports, Dreams, and Challenges! | Collaborative Travel Interview

Hey Everyone, It's been TWO years since I've been keeping this HUGE secret… and now, i'm ready to reveal it.

(DRUMROLL PLEASE........)

I now have a second passport…YAY! (I'm still a little nervous to use it !) 

I’ve interviewed a variety of travellers (some with dual citizenships, some travel agents, and some solo parent travellers (of course), to find out exactly how they cope, doing what we love to do best - getting our passports stamped to ...TRAVEL!

Travel looks different for everyone, but solo parents with dual citizenship face unique challenges - when traveling internationally with their children. 

Amir Husen, Content Writer, SEO Specialist & Associate, ICS Legal says:

“One noticeable difference I've experienced when traveling as a solo parent with dual citizenship is the level of scrutiny and ease of entry depending on which passport I use. When traveling on my Canadian passport, I often receive quicker processing, more visa-free access, and less questioning at immigration checkpoints. But when I've used my South Asian passport—especially while traveling with my child alone—I've encountered more detailed inspections, longer wait times, and occasional questioning about custody or travel intent.

This difference became especially clear during a trip to Europe. Using my Canadian passport, I breezed through border control. But on a separate occasion, traveling with my child on my other passport, I was asked for additional documentation proving parental consent—even though I was clearly listed as the legal guardian. It wasn't hostile, but it was a reminder that perceptions tied to nationality can shape the solo parenting experience abroad.

Over time, I've learned to travel with both passports, along with notarised consent letters and copies of birth certificates, regardless of which one I'm using. It's not just about convenience—it's about being prepared for different assumptions and protocols.

This experience has taught me that dual citizenship is a privilege, but also a responsibility. As a solo parent, the goal is to minimise friction and maximise safety, and that means knowing how each passport is perceived in different regions.”

We explored 5 Significant Challenges they have experienced. 

“As a solo traveling parent of three children, there are many large challenges we always face during travel (accepting help from strangers, questioning looks from passersby, and juggling luggage). The first issue is the logistics of potty breaks, whether that is for myself or my children (one is potty trained, the other two are in diapers). We know that typically bathrooms are the dirtiest places for tiny hands, whether on the airplane or quick stops in stores. Even having to wake up sleeping siblings, to collectively head to the restroom because someone in the group needs to go potty. 

My trick? If there is a clean, obvious, bathroom we are going immediately and everyone is going to have a turn or have a diaper change. For myself, I will either place my youngest child in my lap, or find the stall closest to the wall and use the restroom with the door open so I can watch my kids. This concept has changed the way I travel and has made me have to think preemptively about our "next stop" but adding this in has helped make travel much smoother and less yucky.”

Joelyz Linkous, Founder & Family Travel Expert at Vámonos Together, Vamonos Together

"One of the biggest challenges I faced while traveling as a solo parent was managing my daughter's routine - especially naps and meals, while also keeping up with transportation, accommodations, and sightseeing. Without a co-parent to share responsibilities, every decision had to factor in her needs first, which sometimes limited spontaneity, and required more planning than I anticipated. However, this challenge also taught me to be highly organised and adaptable. It pushed me to find practical solutions, like lightweight travel gear, portable toddler beds, and apps to track schedules with the help of Miniburp, which ultimately made our trips smoother and more enjoyable by reading their guides. Ultimately, navigating these challenges alone strengthened my confidence and creativity as both a parent and traveler."

Hafsa Ghulam Rasool, Content Head, Miniburp

"One of the biggest challenges I encountered while traveling as a solo parent was navigating airport logistics with a toddler in tow. Between managing luggage, keeping track of travel documents, and calming a restless child during long layovers, I quickly realised how much I had underestimated the mental and physical load.

The most difficult moment came during a connecting flight delay. My child was tired and overstimulated, and I had no backup—no one to hold the bags while I soothed a meltdown, no one to grab snacks while I stayed near the gate. That experience taught me the importance of preparation and flexibility. I began packing smarter: fewer bags, more snacks, and a small pouch with calming toys and essentials within reach.

It also shifted how I approached travel. I now build in buffer time, choose child-friendly airlines, and prioritise accommodations with easy access to food and outdoor space. Most importantly, I've learned to ask for help without guilt—whether it's from flight attendants, fellow travellers, or hotel staff.

Traveling solo with a child is not just about logistics—it's about mindset. The challenge made me more resourceful, more patient, and more confident in my ability to create meaningful experiences, even under pressure."

Amir Husen, Content Writer, SEO Specialist & Associate, ICS Legal

“One challenge was managing unexpected schedule disruptions, such as delayed flights or canceled accommodations, while traveling alone with children. These situations required rapidly re-organising meals, naps, and transportation, which intensified stress and limited flexibility. The impact was immediate: routines were thrown off, children became restless, and moments that could have been enjoyable felt rushed or chaotic. Navigating these disruptions reinforced the importance of contingency planning, patience, and maintaining a calm presence. Over time, developing strategies for quick problem-solving and keeping children engaged under pressure improved resilience and made subsequent trips smoother and more manageable.”

Rory Keel, Owner, Equipoise Coffee

We found out how they build a support network while on the trip.

"A helpful strategy has been connecting with local churches and community centers before arriving at the destination. Reaching out in advance often leads to introductions with families who understand the challenges of parenting alone on the road. These connections provide practical support, such as recommending safe activities for children or offering guidance on local resources, while also creating a sense of belonging in an unfamiliar place.

For both parent and child, knowing that there is a trusted community nearby eases the sense of isolation that can come with solo travel. It turns the trip into more than just moving from one location to another—it becomes an opportunity to build relationships that often continue long after the journey ends. That network of care makes the experience more sustainable and meaningful for everyone involved."

Belle Florendo, Marketing coordinator, Sunny Glen Children's Home

“One strategy I've used to build a support network while traveling as a solo parent is connecting with local parenting groups and online communities before I arrive. Whether it's a Facebook group for expat families, a WhatsApp thread for local moms and dads, or even a subreddit focused on family travel, these spaces have been invaluable for getting real-time advice, kid-friendly recommendations, and emotional support.

Before a recent trip to Kuala Lumpur, I joined a local parenting forum and asked for tips on navigating the city with a toddler. Within hours, I had suggestions for stroller-friendly parks, indoor play areas, and even a contact for a trusted babysitter. One parent even offered to meet up for a coffee and playground visit, which turned into a much-needed moment of adult conversation and connection.

This strategy has evolved from passive scrolling to active outreach. I now introduce myself, share my travel dates, and ask specific questions. The key is to be respectful, open, and willing to reciprocate—whether it's sharing your own tips or simply saying thank you.

Solo parenting on the road can feel isolating, but these micro-communities remind me that I'm never truly alone. There's always someone who's been there, who understands, and who's willing to help.”

Amir Husen, Content Writer, SEO Specialist & Associate, ICS Legal, 

Traveling with children can be rewarding, yet challenging. It requires intentional self-care strategies to maintain balance. We must remember that a holiday is not only for the kids! It’s for our physical and mental health too! 

We asked our guest writers how they take care of themselves while traveling with children. (Check out their answers! )

“Self care to me can mean so much, and my favourite things to do while road tripping or flying with my children are either eye masks or full masks. They do not weigh much, do not take up space, they’re cooling, and are something that really elevates a trip! If on a road trip, I make sure to add in a favourite sparkling water and, if I've got the time, press-on nails. It feels like a mini spa while traveling, and I love it!”

Joelyz Linkous, Founder & Family Travel Expert at Vámonos Together, Vamonos Together

“I prioritise my own time! I get up before everyone else, so I'm not rushed while getting myself ready. I sip my coffee and enjoy the silence and prepare myself before getting the rest of the family ready. What's that saying? 'Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others'... It applies tenfold when it comes to family travel!”

Alena Warfield, Travel Advisor, Vincent Vacations & All Inclusive Weddings

“One of the most effective self-care strategies when traveling with children is incorporating small, intentional breaks just for yourself, even if it's only a few minutes while the kids are occupied. This might look like waking up a little earlier to stretch, stepping outside alone for fresh air, or listening to a calming podcast while they nap. This works well because these breaks prevent you from running on empty. While constantly reacting to the stress of travel logistics and kids' needs, it's important to carve out moments to reset your own energy. Those small pauses help with patience, grounding, and release feelings of overwhelm that could infringe on your trip.”

April Crowe, Therapist, Paramount Wellness Retreat

“Rather than waiting for exhaustion to set in, I schedule fifteen-minute window in the morning and evening where another adult takes over so I can step away. Sometimes that means a quiet walk around the hotel grounds, other times it is simply reading in silence.

What makes this work is predictability. Knowing those pauses are coming keeps me more patient and present with the children throughout the day. It also prevents the kind of cumulative fatigue that turns small challenges—missed naps, delayed flights—into overwhelming stress. Over time, I found that the children adapted to these rhythms as well, often using the downtime to rest themselves. The result is a trip that feels more balanced, where both their needs and mine are respected, making the travel experience smoother for everyone.”

Ydette Macaraeg, Part-time Marketing Coordinator, ERI Grants

“As a Travel Expert at Roave Travel, one of the most effective self-care strategies I recommend to parents traveling with children is scheduling a daily Quiet Hour or Unstructured Time. Travel can be overwhelming, and children often become overstimulated, which in turn affects the entire family dynamic. A dedicated calm break, whether reading, journaling, or simply relaxing, gives parents a chance to recharge while kids enjoy quiet play or creative activities.”

Dipti Behera, From Roave Travel 

Last but not least, we asked... “What's Your Dream Destination and Why?”

“One personal travel goal of mine is to spend a few weeks exploring Japan at a slow pace, focusing on its culture and traditions beyond the usual highlights. I've spent nearly 20 years creating travel experiences for others, so taking the time to immerse myself—without an itinerary to manage or clients to host—would be meaningful. It's significant because it would let me reconnect with the simple joy of discovery, the same feeling that first drew me into the travel industry.”

Sherif Khalil, Managing Partner, Dunes Egypt Travel

“One personal travel goal that doesn't involve my children is to spend a week in Kyoto during the fall foliage season, immersing myself in quiet temples, traditional tea houses, and slow, intentional walks through the gardens. As a solo parent and business owner, most of my travel revolves around logistics, schedules, and making sure my kids are engaged and safe. This goal is about reclaiming stillness—about experiencing a place not through the lens of parenting, but through personal reflection.

It's significant because it represents a return to self. Before parenthood, travel was my way of reconnecting with creativity and curiosity. I'd journal, observe, and let the rhythm of a new place reset my perspective. Kyoto, with its blend of nature, history, and ritual, feels like the perfect setting to revisit that part of myself.

This goal has evolved from a vague wish into a planned intention. I've started blocking time on my calendar, researching ryokans, and even brushing up on basic Japanese phrases—not just for practicality, but as a way to honour the experience.

Traveling without my children doesn't mean leaving them behind emotionally—it means showing them, by example, that personal growth and joy are lifelong pursuits. And that sometimes, the best way to show up for others is to first show up for yourself.”

Amir Husen, Content Writer, SEO Specialist & Associate, ICS Legal

“My personal travel goal is to complete a 10-day silent Vipassana meditation retreat, perhaps in a quiet, remote mountain setting. It has absolutely nothing to do with sightseeing or adventure and everything to do with intentional stillness.

As a psychiatrist and a father, my days are filled with words. I spend my time absorbing the experiences of others, offering guidance, and being in constant communication with my family. It is deeply fulfilling work, but it requires an immense amount of mental and emotional output. The idea of traveling somewhere with the sole purpose of being silent is profoundly appealing.

The significance for me is in the radical act of disconnecting from all that noise to simply be an observer of my own inner world. It's a chance to recalibrate my mind and replenish the empathy and patience that my work and family life demand.

It's about taking a journey outward to a new place to facilitate a journey inward. For parents, it's a crucial reminder that we must occasionally refill our own cups, not as a selfish act, but as a necessary one to continue pouring into the lives of those we love.”

Ishdeep Narang, MD, Child, Adolescent & Adult Psychiatrist | Founder, ACES Psychiatry, Orlando, Florida

“A personal travel goal of mine is to spend time in the Scottish Highlands, hiking routes that trace the old clan territories. The significance lies in connecting with heritage while challenging myself physically in a setting far removed from routine. Unlike family-centered trips, this would be about endurance, solitude, and reflection. Walking those rugged trails would represent both a test of resilience and a grounding experience, reminding me of the value of silence and space. It would also provide a reset before returning to the demands of work, giving me clarity that often comes only when routine distractions are stripped away.”

Ydette Macaraeg, Part-time Marketing Coordinator, ERI Grants

"A personal travel goal is making sure I am "in the moment". I love traveling and love traveling with my kids, but it is so easy to get caught up on what to do next, or how everyone is doing/feeling, or trying to document the perfect angles for the blog that truly taking a moment to realise where you are, is something I strive for everywhere I go. Another personal travel goal is taking me time to do something alone, whether that is sitting on the terrace, walking along the beach, swinging in a hammock, carving out time alone allows me to dive deeper into that "in the moment" goal. It's rejuvenating and quite honestly, doesn't happen often so when it does, it's so special to me."

Joelyz Linkous, Founder & Family Travel Expert at Vámonos Together, Vamonos Together

"One personal travel goal I've set for myself is visiting historic landmarks and cultural sites that I've always wanted to explore, independent of my children's interests. This goal is significant because it allows me to nurture my own curiosity and growth while traveling, reminding me that solo parenting doesn't mean putting my personal passions entirely on hold. Experiencing art museums, architectural wonders, or local cultural events provides a sense of fulfilment and inspiration that I can carry back into daily life.

Focusing on my own travel interests also reinforces the importance of self-care and maintaining a sense of individuality. It's a reminder that exploring new places isn't just about the children's experience—it's about continuing to grow, learn, and create memories that resonate personally. Over time, these experiences enrich my perspective, making me a more energised, balanced, and present parent when sharing adventures with my children in the future."

Wayne Lowry, (Marketing Coordinator)

"One personal travel goal of mine is to visit off-the-beaten-path destinations, places that aren't typically crowded with tourists but have rich cultural history or natural beauty. For example, I'd love to explore parts of Eastern Europe or the Andes—areas that are less commercialised but offer a deep, authentic connection to their environment and heritage.

This goal is significant to me because I value experiencing different perspectives and embracing the unknown. Traveling to less-visited places allows me to step outside my comfort zone, immerse myself in unfamiliar cultures, and broaden my worldview. It also provides a sense of personal accomplishment—being able to say I've ventured to places not many people have heard of or experienced. It's about growing through new experiences and gaining insights that can only come from authentic, off-the-grid travel."

Ysabel Florendo, Marketing coordinator, Ready Nation Contractors

So there you have it. Travel looks different for everyone, me included. Some of us face more challenges than others, but hey, at-least we get to explore this beautiful earth. Sometimes, some of the challenges we face have nothing to do with the children - things just happen!

To those of you in the U.K, the new Digital I.D process could happen anytime soon. Try and put in a passport application and aim for a second citizenship anywhere else!

Check out my post covering some of the challenges I faced in Bentota, Sri Lanka.

One thing I do know, is that travel is for everyone - no matter your circumstances, go in love and explore.

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